When it comes to our horses, goals can be motivating and helpful... or not  - if we pursue them without an awareness of what is really happening from our horse’s perspective. I’ve been known in the past to vacillate from one end of the goal spectrum to the other. How about you? 

 2 Kinds of Thinking
Today’s discussion is going to address how we can use the 2 parts of our minds to stay connected to our horses and our hearts when it comes to making progress using goals and intentions. 

From my perspective, we each have 2 parts of our thinking: 

1. The analytical logical side that loves to go after a goal with determination and drive
2. And the intuitive, creative part that craves connection and nurtures relationship 

(HINT: we can use our intentions from number 2 to choose and fulfill number 1)

BALANCE IS THE KEY to Heartfelt Intention and Connection.

It’s an opportunity – to learn how to balance these 2 parts of our minds,...

Horses naturally desire relationships and connections with other beings when they find the experience reinforcing. How does your horse "feel" when it's with you? It matters to your horse and can make all the difference in your relationship. 

"Being with your horse versus doing something to it ~ it's very different from the horse's viewpoint."
Melissa Deal